I'm so sorry that you have to had such dreadful pain. Regarding your question, although I haven't experienced your situation myself, I found this in amberen's site: "Women reported a significant improvement in the quality of their sex life as a result of alleviation of vaginal dryness, itching and burning."

I do think that the bleed and pain is caused by the dryness. So, yes, I think it can help you. Just be sure that you research it thoroughly to determine that it suits your need. You can start by reading my post here: http://www.fountainofyouthonline.net/menopause-relief/reviewed-good-and-bad-things-about-amberen/